How to keep a girl interested in you.
Hello February ! The month of love has begun ❤ and since valentines day is just around the corner I thought why not post something related to it . 😉 You see when most guys set out to impress a woman they do all the wrong things. With some research, and personal advice I’ve listed down 11 ways you can set yourself apart from the 29 other lame guys she’s met, and I guarantee that you will be leaving her looking forward to the next time she is going to see you again !
RULE # 1. be Creative:
I don’t know many women who haven’t been taken out to dinner at least 100 times. So, be different and when you get together, do fun things that she doesn’t get to do with anyone else. Take her on a bike ride around town, go bowling, go for a night stroll in a beautiful park, take her to a theme park, or an art museum that has a cute little café with a fascinating story behind it. Doing something fun and different will get her looking forward to the next time
you two will get together again ! 👏
2. Stay in control:
A Woman like a man with a plan; when you call her up, don’t make her “work” by having to make any decisions. Unless, of course you want to take her to her Favorite restaurant . *Hint* Hint* Women, love that!!! ❤ if not Let her know exactly what time you are picking her up, where you are taking her and what she should wear. Let her sit back and relax while you take care of all the details. And later, show her where your bedroom is — and for god’s sake, take her clothes off for her. It’s the gentleman thing to do. LOL… 😜
3. be courteous:
Being courteous is a powerful way to let a woman know that you are a man and she is in good hands and believe it or not! Women these days, still look for these little things. So if you hope to stick around – show that you care. Open doors for her and pull out her chair. When you’re walking down the street, make sure you always walk on the outside of the curb, Put your hand against her lower back when walking into a restaurant or across the street. You’ll be surprised at just how much this turns her ON.
4. Stay on her mind:
There is nothing that touches a woman more than when you make her feel that you think about her. If you’re REALLY into her – do something to let her know she was on your mind – it could be as simple as a cute picture message, sending flowers to her office, sending chocolates …It’s not that hard to do – and believe me you’ll be on her mind all day when you do something simple like that.
5. Keep your cool:
Don’t be the type of guy that sweats the small stuff… like an unreturned phone call. Simply pretend you were too busy to even notice that she forgot to call you back. She’ll probably assume you were busy with other women — which is always a good thing. When you just start going on dates, you don’t want to put all your cards on the table, just be cool and casual it will make her feel comfortable and not pressured. After all you’re both getting to know each other. OH and boys! don’t keep asking and asking to take a woman out on a date if she says she can’t – and doesn’t get back to you its most likely she’s already attached or not into you. Save yourself from disappointment.
6. be mysterious:
Too many guys make the mistake of throwing their entire lives on the table when they meet a woman they are interested in. thinking this will make them completely into you. – NOT always the case so, be different and hold some things back — especially those that people might consider impressive. Women are much more impressed by the accomplishments of others when they “discover” them rather than being told about them. For instance, if she asks you what you drive and you happen to drive a nice car, tell her you like to ride a motor scooter. When she finds out the truth, she’ll be impressed not only with your vehicle, but also your sense of humor and modesty plus it will turn her ON more.
7. Have a life:
The one thing that all men who are really successful with women have in common is that they all have great lives of their own, and they don’t need a woman in their lives to be happy. Women find this extremely attractive. It’s easy for a woman to land a guy that “needs” her, but when she meets a guy that has a successful and happy life already, she’ll do whatever she can to convince him that she should be a part of it. So, find some things that you are passionate about, whether it is hobbies, sports or business pursuits, and make them your main priorities instead of her. Keep yourself active and well-rounded — and let her be the one to try to chase you down. She will love that challenge!
8. Make her earn it:
I’m sure you’ve heard the old saying “people don’t value what they don’t have to work for.” Well, the same holds true for women and dating. If you’re putting in all of the effort in the relationship, she won’t value you or appreciate your time. So make sure she’s calling you or texting you as much if not more often then you’re communicating with her. Have her come over to your house and pick you up every once in a while, and ask her to help you out with small favors here and there. The more work she puts into the relationship, the more she’ll value it — and it will also prove to you that she is into you! It can’t always be a one way street.
9. Make a move:
After she’s proved herself to you, it’s time to be a man and make a move. Women don’t respect a man who doesn’t have the guts to go for that first kiss — or anything else — so don’t let her down. Making a move will make her feel sexy and attractive, and it will show her that you are the type of confident, powerful man she is looking for.
10. be causal:
The last thing a woman wants is a guy who starts calling her 10 times a day after they’ve had a fun night out. If you start acting like you’re ready for marriage after the first date — or even the fifth — you might as well have the words “I’m desperate!” tattooed across your forehead. Instead, keep things cool. Don’t rush into anything, and let her be the one to take things to the next level. She’ll let you know where you stand, and she will respect you more and you’ll have a far better chance of ending up in that great relationship you are looking for. TRUST me the biggest turn OFF is acting desperate, I’ve seen it too many times and personally find it extremely creepy.
11. Be Genuinely interested:
There is nothing more attractive to a woman then a man who wants to get to know what she is all about, and not just because of her stunning appearance. I would recommend remembering what she enjoys doing, what her ambitions in life are, getting to know her favorite foods, AND most importantly her friends !!! here’s a tip guys -Get her friends to like you – and you have certainly made it into the circle of trust ! 😉
I Hope you guys enjoyed reading this and I hope it helps you get the girl you been crushing on ! 😍 It took me a couple of days and hours to get this all together … Phew ! If you have any questions and suggestions ☺ feel free to send me a message anytime.