14 reasons to celebrate your singleness
Now that I finally have time to write, I think this would be a good one for Valentines day. Courtesy of
the single woman.
Okay, Let’s face it: Valentine’s Day is not an equal opportunity holiday.
If Valentine’s Day is the “Holiday of Love,” Then wouldn’t this be the perfect time to love yourself a little more passionately? To remind yourself of how strong, spirited, and independent you are? To celebrate yourself and your life a little? So if you’re sad and mopey and struggling with the fact that another Valentine’s is dawning and you’re not yet a party of two…here are fourteen reasons why no one deserves YOUR love more than YOU!!!
1.) Because you’re Brave and you would rather walk alone, then with someone who is unworthy of you.
2.) You’re single not because you are not good enough for one, it’s that you’re too good for the wrong one.
3.)Because when you know who you are & what you want, when what your waiting for finally arrives, you will thank God that you never settled for anything less.
4.) Because you need to learn to love yourself first. You can’t give away what you do not have.
5.) Because settling for less than the best is not an option.
6.) Because you don’t need someone that makes you feel that way.Seriously !
7.) Because your happiness, self worth, and self confidence is not dependent on your relationship status.
8.) Because she’s right!
9.) Because you don’t deserve that stress.
10.) Because you know it’s no one’s job to complete you, fix you, or validate you.
11.) Because you know that you have to learn to love yourself, before you can ask anyone else to love you.
12.) Because you know your worth, and you have every right to be picky!
13.) Because when you’re ready to wear a diamond… you should want to become one.
14.) Because being with no one is better than being with the wrong one. Sometimes, those who fly solo have the strongest wings.
On that Note , I will leave it at this. The best advice I have ever gotten was said that I shouldn’t be in a relationship with anyone whom I wouldn’t marry, for it is a waste of time and it takes you off the market. So don’t worry if you’re not in a relationship, Build friendships, and one day maybe you’ll suddenly meet your soul mate, or you’ll realize you want to spend the rest of your life with your best friend.
Your young life shouldn’t be spent trying to fall in love or even having to worry about a partner. Your life right now should be filled with spending time on finding yourself and building friendships.
Any guy who thinks he’s playing a REAL woman, is actually playing himself. a REAL woman is a GREAT GAIN.
YOU HAVE A LONG JOURNEY AHEAD OF YOU. DON’T RUSH IT! THE BEST IS YET TO COME. I PROMISE YOU !
Happy Valentine’s day Everyone ! ❣